Thursday, October 18, 2007
Your future daughter-in-law...
or your future son-in-law...
i have this very funny aunt of mine.
she's always so jealous of my mum...
like...
always comparing...
cite you examples.
she's always comparing the following:
1) studies *duh*
2) capability in financing oneself
3) personal income
4) filial piety
5) RELATIONSHIP HANDLING - is like faint sia...
on top of all those,
it's like she's always envious of my mum for having me.
Cuz i do spend alot of time chatting, bitching with my mum.
yea..
and i mean BITCHING...
we are great pals..
yes, i'm talking about my mum and me...
ha!
then comes the relationship handling..
WAHAHAHAH!
it's like everytime she sees my mum,
she will keep telling my mum,
how loving darling and i are..
is like..
WTS..
how she know how loving we are man..
like, we didn't even show any public affection lo...
*slaps forehead*
she just thinks that dar is lucky to have me..
and i could see in the eyes of hers is like..
look at ppl's daughter,
she knows how to handle her relationship, studies and career so well...
BUT...
who knows how hard i work?
only dar knows.
who knows how we keep our relationship going strong and loving?
only both dar and i know.
i always think right,
that LIFE is ours to control.
in order to fulfill LIFE to its fullest and happiest moments,
we should CONTROL it and just enjoy LIfe...
talking about how hard i work,
hahahaha,
Frans was commenting that Da jie's diary so packed...
so many words and so many schedules..
yea,
when i mean tution marathon,
i mean REAL MARATHONING...
like morning till night those kind...
from one place to another to another..
the maximum i got was 4 tuitions in 1 day.
and recently,
my throat got bad,
cuz i keep teaching and teaching...
NEXT,
what's there to compare in terms of personal income?
like,
dar and i are a huge amount spender..
means we invest our money on POISONOUS things like..
keke..
photography for us,
scrapping for me...
Spa/Massage/Manis/Pedis for me...
Gadgets for him..
Holidays for the both of us...
like hello??????
becuz of the poisonous hobbies,
we OF COURSE have to work hard what!
faintz...
or else what?
money drop from the skies??
Next,
filial piety.
for me,
I lost my dad at the age of 16.
he lost his battle in cancer and left us.
granddad lost his stroke battle 6 months after dad left us.
it was double sadness in the family,
so when Mum lost her hubby as well as her beloved dad..
it was double trauma to her..
so it was only ME to bring the whole family up again.
this is where, I started becoming of who I am today.
the episode wasn't over yet after losing 2 of our loved ones.
Grandma fell and got a mild stroke.
lucky for her, we hospitalised her fast enough.
if not,
another case.
so dar came into the picture,
brought some cheers and smiles to me.
then brought Sasha into the family,
Oreo next..
All this falls in place,
and we managed to walk out of this dark cave.
Thanks darling for all the little things you pick me up here and there.
It's not the i-love-you,
or the i-miss-you,
that you always would say to me.
but it's the sincerity that you prove to me,
that you are so worthy of my love for you....
-though i would love to hear you say i-love-you-
wahahhahahah!!!
so coming back to filial piety,
i think mum's lonely.
so as her only daughter,
it's right for me,
or dutily for me,
to hear her out,
help her when in need...
or else,
who can she turn to?
she has no siblings...
no relatives that she really can count on.
she has only me.
so this Aunt of mine,
keeps complaing to my mum,
about her son..
not spending time with her,
always on the loose outside,
like going out in the mornings,
and back at wee hours...
income not that much..
cuz still studying at Uni..
and keeps asking for money..
well,
I must say,
our cost of living is not that like the good old times..
is ever increasing,
and gonna increase more.
so all i know now is,
i'm going to cherish my loved ones..
and of course,
living life the way it should be.
weareone ♥
9:16 PM
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