Saturday, July 23, 2005
phew!!!
today had a nice sleep..
darling didn't came till afternoon...
let him sleep also..
he's gonna have loads to do too for our WISP...
hmm..
was thinking of wad ernest had ask me during lunch at NYdc..
Ernest: When do you guys planning to get married?
Me: Must plan..
I was thinking...
why thinking?
he started the question cuz my friends are getting married younger and younger each day...
just like what chubby blog had stated..
her friend is married..
and how old is she?
young.
full stop.
my friend is 19 and she got married too..
but a lot of financial problems..
stress also..
i dun wanna that...
darling n my plan would be this..
Darling would go for his NS so he would be out let's say by 22....
then he would go either pursue his studies or work.
i'm leaving the choice to him..
there's no such thing between us that he must feed me or wadever..
i'm more towards a career minded woman..
so i guess i wanna study and gain exposure to the world soon..
then i guess i will settle down with him when financial is stable.
i'm goaling towards age of 25 or 26..
mag just ask me whether i wanna buy house/do reno first or married and have those dinner first..
i said..
buy house/do reno..
cuz i wanna straight away move in during our wedding day..
hee...
it's not fast guys...
everything needs planning...
there' s no what if in our relationship..
our foundation is strong..
happy we are.
if in life, there's so many what if, things cannot be done happily...
and eternally..
keep talking and discussing with Mag about the design of the house till I can go crazy..
She's such a talkative fella too..
Her house is so simple..
Though 3 room only... but it's big...
she claims herself as a very practical person..
why practical..
she wouldn't give up a room to put all her stuffs that her husband give her or photos of her hubby and her..
i will.
dar and i engage in many creative ornaments created by ourself..
we believe photos are only a mere surface..
my future papa in law loves a room for media..
so i think i wanna have that too..
i like that...
many dogs both of us..
dar loves bed that is on the floor...
jap. stuff..
same as me..
we love those kinda bed..
we love wood and glass..
so i guess our future house would be mostly wood and glass..
that's why we click so much..
we define term wood as modern and warm feeling and
glass as class and elegance..
woooo!!
look at our bank account...
i still owe andy 90 bucks.. hahahahahaha....
will pay him soon!!!
hahah....
Jessie just ask me this question...
How is my love life?
Wonderful.
that's it.
Andy is a real funny guy..
i remembered him saying this..
i thought i see you, that means i will see terence...
or...
i thought i contact you, that means i will get to contact terence..
hahahahaha...
or...
how come both of u never answer my calls?
throw away your phones...
l0lx...
=)
whatever it is...
darling will come first..
was talking 2 my mum this morning..
Me: It's not fast mum... We need to plan and have backup plans so that you know at least we won't be wasting our money!!
Mum: You're right but what if...
Me: There's no what if. I know sometimes things will not go the way we want it to be or plan to be... But look positive, stay positive.. do whatever your head tells u to do, u r there... on that track...
Mum: But you see, if you move out, it's a whole lotta money!!!
Me: I've got to learn how to be a good house keeper and wife manx... You mean you are gonna be here forever meh?? Pay for me and my hubby's utilities bills, taxs, house fee, etc.?
Mum: No la... i'm just telling u that..
Me: no need to tell la... It's obvious right.. when u move out, u got to foot everything by yourself.. From head to toe... to the little little things like detergent...
Mum: it's not easy..
Me: It's never ending la u... Say this say that...
no wonder what darling said about my mum was right..
hee...
she sometimes say things that are quite obvious...
hahahaha...
all right, i'm going to talk to my darling now...
whooo hooo!!!
good nite world...
good nite dogs...
good nite computer...
good nite to tests...
*lovehimloveme*
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